My son, do not despise the Lord’s discipline and do not resent his rebuke because the Lord disciplines those he loves, as a father the son he delights in.(Prov 3:11-12)

All situations, dilemmas, circumstances and trials have purpose. No matter how instense the present moment may seem, there is always molding and shaping of our character. God has a purpose for each and everyone of us if we allow him to work for our good. Some may say how is this attainable? The challenge here is to ask yourself, what am I contributing to this ordeal? What can one do different?